Come As You Are.
Grow together.
A sex-positive community for couples, singles, and everyone in between, exploring open, poly, and non-traditional relationships with honesty, consent, and a whole lot of fun.
150+ members ยท Since 2020 ยท $19.95/month ยท Cancel anytime
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April & Scott, founders
This is the community
Serious about growth. Not so serious about everything else.
You come for the adventure.
You stay for the people.
Today AYA is a home for people who want honest relationships, real friendships, and a life they love, surrounded by people who get it.
What happens inside
Our private Circle community brings people together every week through live conversation, education, movement, and real support.
Weekly live discussions
Show up, speak honestly, and be heard, with our coaches and community leaders guiding the conversation.
Relationship education
Wild Love Theory, communication, jealousy, desire, and repair, taught with honesty and depth.
Strength & movement
Six new workouts every week, from no-equipment to full-gym, with video demos for every movement.
Member events & workshops
Virtual gatherings and workshops made just for members.
A private, sex-positive space
Talk openly with people who get it. Consent is non-negotiable. Respect is non-negotiable.
First access to retreats
Priority access to our events, meetups, and adventure trips around the world.
Real people. Real adventures.
Join the community
Everything inside AYA Society, for less than a dollar a day.
Monthly
- Weekly live discussions with our coaches & leaders
- Relationship education and Wild Love Theory conversations
- 6 new workouts each week, with video demos
- Nutrition blueprints, eBooks, and tips
- Member-only virtual events & workshops
- Exclusive podcast chats & behind-the-scenes content
- Priority access to events, meetups & trips
Annual
- Everything in the monthly membership
- One simple payment for the full year
- Save $40 compared to monthly
No contracts. Cancel anytime.
Get our free tools and your first month on us
Join the AYA Society newsletter and we'll send you the resources our members use most, plus a code for a free month inside the community.
- IThe AYA Weekly Relationship Check-InA simple weekly ritual for non-monogamous partners to stay honest and connected.
- IIThe Getting Outed Battle PlanWhat to do if you're outed, or how to come out to friends and family on your own terms.
- IIIOne free month in the communityUse your code when you join. No pressure, cancel anytime.
Prefer to start even smaller? Say hello in our free Facebook community.
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People do not leave our events remembering only what they did. They leave remembering who they became.
Adventures worth the passport stamps
Our retreats include celebration and play, but they are not just parties. They are intentional spaces to explore non-monogamy, connect with like-minded people, and grow together, all built on consent, accountability, and emotional responsibility.
- Oct 12โ17, 2026El Salvador RetreatMizata, El Salvadorโ
- Nov 8โ11, 2026Wild & WiseWomen's retreat ยท Smoky Mountainsโ
- Nov 8โ11, 2026Mancation MountainMen's retreat ยท Smoky Mountainsโ
- Nov 15โ20, 2026HolidazeSmoky Mountainsโ
- Jan 2โ9, 2027Be Better At Being Bad IVHedonism II ยท Jamaicaโ
They come for the fun. They stay because they grow.
- Say what you want out loud, and be heard.
- Explore desire without losing yourself.
- Build relationships you choose, not ones you inherited.
Everyone is welcome here
We welcome open-minded, sex-positive adults of every identity, sexuality, and relationship structure. Inclusion here is active, not performative. It is built on consent, responsibility, and growth.
Private by design
We know many of our members aren't out to everyone in their lives. Protecting your privacy isn't a feature here. It's a promise.
Behind closed doors
Our community lives behind a paywall. Nothing members share is public or searchable.
Your name, your choice
Use a display name and share only what you're comfortable sharing.
What's shared here stays here
Confidentiality is a community agreement every member makes.
No photos without consent
No one is photographed, posted, or tagged at our events without their permission.
How we live it
Come Alive
Discover who you are beneath the expectations.
Build Connection
Cultivate healthier relationships with yourself and others.
Never Stop Playing
Embrace adventure, curiosity, and a life that's fully lived.
Love is not ownership.
Freedom is not recklessness.
Commitment is not control.
Wild Love Theory
Love should never make you smaller.
Written by April and Scott, Wild Love Theory is the framework our community is built on. It applies inside monogamy, non-monogamy, and everything in between, because the structure matters less than the integrity inside it.
Work one-on-one
Personal guidance for your body, your relationships, and whatever season you're in.
1-on-1 Coaching
A kickoff Zoom session, two 30-minute accountability calls each month, ongoing video chat support, and workouts and nutrition guidance built around you.
Choose Your CoachCoaching Call
One focused hour on fitness, relationships, personal growth, or non-traditional dynamics. We'll unpack what's coming up and map a path forward.
Schedule a Call
Coach April
Fitness, nutrition & helping women and men feel strong in who they are
Coach Scott
Strength, longevity & intentional relationships
Coach Cara
Pelvic floor, mobility, sex & intimacy coaching
Real conversations. Not quick answers.
Long-form, emotionally honest conversations about relationships, autonomy, jealousy, identity, and growth, with lived experience alongside philosophy.
It gives us a secure environment to share our successes, failures, and fun with. It brings sex positivity to essential daily health and activity, not just to the hedonistic lifestyle we can only occasionally enjoy on vacation or at clubs.C & D ยท Members since the beginning
Welcome, as you are.
Join a community of self-responsible adults choosing to grow together.
